Don’t be foolish! Don’t be ignorant! Don’t be stupid!
The courts want you to fight against one another! How else can they stick it you both?
You were a family once, living together. Families stick together no matter what.
You are only the courts family if you are a judge or lawyer. You not a part of their family, you are a sitting duck to be pillage by the courts judges and lawyers.
You are a basically saying; take everything I have, and then some. You’d be better off, being the good religious person and donate all of what you would be taken for by the courts judges and lawyers. Help those that cannot help themselves, battered women and children, abused animals. Do you see the judges and lawyers donating their time and money at any of those places? NO! They give it all to their families, be it married or divorce.
Don’t be the court’s prey and the lawyers kill, please don‘t!
I heard some rare stories about how ex spouses are getting along, so well, that there is more money for them and the children, not the court because they agreed to do all the paperwork themselves. In fact they both have homes, cars, boats, vacation homes. You owe it to yourselves to be #1 in your households. It would make for a much better win, win outcome.
Be foolish, be so upset, be so blinded by anger towards your ex and be the court judges and lawyers slave forever, because you both and your children’s, children will still be paying for it.
Don’t allow yourself to be their puppets, 2nd or 3rd class citizens.
